Current:Home > Contact50 Cent posted about a 'year of abstinence.' Voluntary celibacy is a very real trend. -QuantumFunds
50 Cent posted about a 'year of abstinence.' Voluntary celibacy is a very real trend.
View
Date:2025-04-25 01:14:21
50 Cent claimed in a recent Instagram post that he's "practicing abstinence" – which many have taken as him saying he's not having sex, specifically.
"My new idea is so big, I don’t have time to be distracted I’m practicing abstinence, I have been meditating and focusing on my goals," he wrote earlier this week on the social platform. "I hope this New Year helps you excel to the next level."
Of course, he could be talking about something else or using this as a marketing ploy to promote a product. Let's not forget how Snoop Dogg caused a similar hubbub when he said he was quitting smoking. USA TODAY has reached out to reps for 50 Cent for more information.
Regardless, voluntary celibacy is very much a trend, despite society's emphasis on sex as some kind of threshold to cross. Or that if you're not having sex, you're somehow not enjoying or experiencing life to its fullest or most pleasurable.
In reality, choosing boundaries can be empowering for those who want to exhibit agency over their bodies and relationships. Sexual empowerment advocate and writer Amanda McCracken explains, "There's just as much power in saying no as yes."
Why some people choose to not have sex
Sex researcher Candice Hargons previously told USA TODAY there are many known benefits of a healthy sex life. But saying no can also offer similar perks. Some may opt for abstinence because they're fed up with hookup culture and crave an emotional connection. Others may use the opportunity for mindfulness and reflection.
"The pros of celibacy can include the ability to build a romantic relationship with someone without the pressure of sex, the ability to focus on other important parts more readily, and even spiritual growth and alignment for one with religious values," says Hargons, an associate professor of counseling psychology at the University of Kentucky.
Sex experts clarify there's no "right or wrong" way to be abstinent. McCracken, for example, explained she dated and was "intimate" with numerous men during an abstinence journey of her own, but she refrained from sex. This experience led her to find a "healthy and irreplaceable" romance with her husband.
"We learned to have intimacy and build that connection without sexual intercourse," she says, adding that it allowed them to better "listen to each other and be present and aware of each other's needs."
Celibacy not 'inherently better or worse'
When abstinence is a choice, it "can really be an amazing experience," according to Cate Mackenzie, a psychosexual therapist and couples counselor. Just as it's OK to want casual hookups, it can also empowering to remove yourself from a culture that pressures people to be sexually active.
But Hargons emphasized that shaming individuals into abstinence with religious purity culture can have adverse effects, including ignorance about safe sex as well as sexual trauma.
DC is buzzing about a Senate sex scandalWhat it says about the way we discuss gay sex.
Of course, healthy sexuality looks different for everyone, and no preference is superior. And if you do choose to have sex, there isn't a magical perfect cadence for every relationship.
"Celibacy isn't an inherently better or worse sexual option than other options," Hargons says. "Sexual wellness and empowerment is about deciding what works for you and your partner… as long as the root of the abstinence isn't shame or guilt."
Contributing: Jenna Ryu
What do rage rooms have to do with sex?A whole lot, it turns out.
veryGood! (75)
Related
- Intel's stock did something it hasn't done since 2022
- Taylor Swift Superfan Mariska Hargitay Has the Purrfect Reaction to Buzz Over Her New Cat Karma
- California Gov. Newsom proposes some housing and climate cuts to balance $38 billion budget deficit
- How Jennifer Lopez Poked Fun at Her Past Marriages in Latest Music Video
- Residents worried after ceiling cracks appear following reroofing works at Jalan Tenaga HDB blocks
- Tennessee governor, music leaders launch push to protect songwriters and other artists against AI
- The bird flu has killed a polar bear for the first time ever – and experts say it likely won't be the last
- Powerful storms bring heavy snow, rain, tornadoes, flooding to much of U.S., leave several dead
- The Best Stocking Stuffers Under $25
- The Voice Alum Lauren Duski Mourns Death of Mom Janis in Heartbreaking Tribute
Ranking
- The FTC says 'gamified' online job scams by WhatsApp and text on the rise. What to know.
- Glassdoor unveils the best places to work in 2024. Here are the top 10 companies.
- New Mexico Legislature confronts gun violence, braces for future with less oil wealth
- Walmart says it will use AI to restock customers' fridges
- In ‘Nickel Boys,’ striving for a new way to see
- Taylor Swift Superfan Mariska Hargitay Has the Purrfect Reaction to Buzz Over Her New Cat Karma
- Searches underway following avalanche at California ski resort near Lake Tahoe
- NBA MVP watch: Thunder's Shai Gilgeous-Alexander takes center stage with expansive game
Recommendation
Travis Hunter, the 2
Security of Georgia's Dominion voting machines put on trial
Greta Gerwig Has a Surprising Response to Jo Koy’s Barbie Joke
Nick Saban retiring after 2023 season. 226 weeks show dominance as Alabama coach
Former Syrian official arrested in California who oversaw prison charged with torture
Paul Giamatti's own high school years came in handy in 'The Holdovers'
Who’s running for president? See a rundown of the 2024 candidates
Nick Saban coached in the NFL. His tenure with the Miami Dolphins did not go well.